{"id":494,"date":"2015-03-06T09:58:36","date_gmt":"2015-03-06T09:58:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/?p=494"},"modified":"2015-03-06T09:58:36","modified_gmt":"2015-03-06T09:58:36","slug":"bridges-to-our-next-phase","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/2015\/03\/06\/bridges-to-our-next-phase\/","title":{"rendered":"Bridges to our next phase"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/cropped-Burnside-bridge-in-sunlight-for-blog-08-28-121.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-291\" alt=\"cropped-Burnside-bridge-in-sunlight-for-blog-08-28-121.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/cropped-Burnside-bridge-in-sunlight-for-blog-08-28-121.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Last night&#8217;s Special Olympics party to conclude the season has me thinking about transitions -also the tabletime topic among the parents in attendance.\u00a0 W (nor J) won&#8217;t have an organized team sport this spring unless I mix up their speech therapy schedule a bit, or reach beyond the local groups here &#8211; which is actually not a bad idea.\u00a0\u00a0There&#8217;s lots to be gained from trying something new and exercise plus sociability is always helpful for our family.<\/p>\n<p>With one year and 17 days left in the public school system, not that I&#8217;m counting, our bridge to tomorrow seems so very near.\u00a0\u00a0 The above image is the Burnside Bridge in ?Antietam MD, on a Civil War battlefield we toured back when dear daughter&#8217;s Virginia college put us hear such dappled fields.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Because I like my autistic wonderboys need visuals to guide me, I&#8217;m keeping it at heart this morning.\u00a0 It was such a gift of a day, with J. as usual guiding W across an expanse and somehow everyone getting their needs met.\u00a0 I know that&#8217;s possible for adults with developmental disabilities, however fresh the stories of frustration that square pegs of these special individuals don&#8217;t fit into the round holes of adult programs for them.\u00a0 I also know it&#8217;s very possible for me to creatively frame a life for them &#8211; and me &#8211; that meets our needs, allows us to grow and yet places us on some undiscovered path to a future full of light and promise.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8221;m also heartened that I&#8217;ve made it here, God knows how sometimes.\u00a0\u00a0 Today is day 5 of the hubby&#8217;s seemingly endless business trip and the work demands have been ridiculous, yet somehow I&#8217;ve held it together.\u00a0 My own life is on its own bridge to somewhere &#8211; hopefully not a bridge to nowhere &#8211; and I feel that too.\u00a0 I&#8217;m ever mindful that I have options and can exercise them should I figure out what the heck ones I want, and more than anything manage my own warped self-expectations.<\/p>\n<p>To the bridge!\u00a0 to the future!\u00a0\u00a0 to a day with the best of all we can be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last night&#8217;s Special Olympics party to conclude the season has me thinking about transitions -also the tabletime topic among the parents in attendance.\u00a0 W (nor J) won&#8217;t have an organized team sport this spring unless I mix up their speech therapy schedule a bit, or reach beyond the local groups here &#8211; which is actually [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/494","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=494"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/494\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=494"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=494"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/twinmommeetsautism.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=494"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}